UHNW & HNW Women:RISE to Escape. How One Blogpost Gained Me A Former Inmate
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How One Blogpost Gained Me A Former Criminal
"Success in life is founded upon attention to the small things rather than to the large things;
to the every day things nearest to us rather than to the things that are remote and uncommon.
Booker T. Washington
Sometimes the small things need to be said every now and again. Just to remind us all of its importance. Just to remind us all of our direction.
How can you not feel any level of satisfaction in that quotation? It conjures up a gratification of what small things can do for you as you journey through life issues engaging with various people and circumstances. Each small step delivers a ‘next stage’ advancement to strengthen your life balance, awareness and empowerment as you take your journey’s path. For you, all that you have to do is to enable your courage and engagement momentum to do the small things that feel reasonable + enable a well-being with you, at all moments that opportunity arrives at your space. For some of you it is easier said than done.
How many of you frequently underestimate the little things. The small things in life. The seemingly insignificant aspects that pop up in your environment. The peripheral situations that find their way into your zone.
How many of you have had the privilege of being in the company of someone who was once law abiding but then society with its twists, turns and moving goalposts made them into social outcasts, convicts, prisoners, criminals. All done too easily in this day and age. You are wondering how this can be possible. You do not believe that it is possible for someone innocent to be created into a prison inmate? Let me give you these examples. For example, someone who is having problems paying their rent/mortgage on time quickly gets sucked into a downward spiral and may end up in prison just for trying to survive from day to day. An elderly person who protests on social issues can be arrested and gain a criminal record for disturbing the peace. A parent who confronts a sexual predator that tries to lure a child can end up in jail with a criminal record just for trying to protect the child. And so it goes on. Day after day in your society.
In my past I had known a handful of people that gained a prison record. They gained a prison record yet they managed to get their life in order and become management professionals. Over time they gained good relationships and lived very well on their new lease of life. New relationships. New family. New beginnings. New opportunities. New wealth.
The one thing that they all had in common was that they were devoted to their family, friends and community.
It is most important that you see how someone as very similar to you discovers me.
When you have a relationship with someone who has been in prison...
In the new year festivities there was one individual who had contacted me with a view to helping his wife. They had not been married for too long but she was finding it a strain to come to terms with his former prison life and some of his associates. She was starting to drink more, lose her bubbly character, spend her allowance on others and spend more time outside of their residence, mainly doing charitable work to compensate for the opulence that she was living in. She was preferring the company of others than her husband and his friends. I was not sure how I could help, or even if I could help his wife and their relationship from stalling and crashing down around them. I am not a marriage counsellor, but I know first hand about relationships with people who had been in prison and had changed their life around. Good people. Noble people. Decent people. Salt of the earth people. People with a distinct set of values and codes to life.
There are indeed various types of prison convicts, and I have come across some violent men AND women. It is important that the hardened, violent individuals gain a qualified psychologist and other counsellors as their ‘go to’ specialists. Integrating them to specific therapy groups that would understand their conditions would be a must before any form of ‘soft’ private coaching could begin. I am more than happy to recommend a London specialist for these particular inquiries.
The type of people who have been in prison and are at heart decent people with a moral consciousness AND want to change their life for the better (them and their community) are the individuals that are comparatively appropriate to Face Everything And RISE coaching.
With this particular former inmate that had contacted me over the new year,
1. He had read my blogposts and was searching for someone specific to help his home situation.
2. He had initiated an online contact with me.
3. Followed by a telephone conversation.
4. Then we met in a top London restaurant.
5. In this first instance our meeting was to ascertain whether he trusted me and felt that he could do business with me. After all, it was his relationship at stake here.
A few days later he contacted me again and arranged a meeting with him and his wife. The situation was that I was going to help her be ready for an event, through assisting her with some social mobility steps to help her cope with meeting certain individuals/dignitaries. To be her source for advice and a confidante in social matters. To assist her with any personal struggles, such as stress, angst, anxiety. To be a part of her support network when she felt that things were getting too much for her. To help her regain her bubbly character and be the woman that he had fallen in love with.
I was informed that money was not an issue with the commencement of this coaching programme. To help deliver peace of mind and harmony in the home was the most important aspect to the husband.
It was also made clear to me that I would have two clients on this journey. The husband who was paying for the coaching sessions and the wife who was participating in the coaching sessions.
It was two weeks later that the wife contacted me. I had suggested to her during our London meeting that she read a couple of my blogs. This was so that she had an overview and knew what I was about and how I could possibly help her. I did not want her to enter into a partnership with me not knowing who I was and what I did for clients.
Is this your life?
It was important to establish a rapport with her and to let her know that I was there to help her. No rapport meant an upward struggle for her to gain substantial benefit from the coaching relationship. No rapport quite simply means a waste of time and money. I would rather that clients find someone else that they connect with in order to receive the components of specific help that they require. No hard feelings.
Now we are months into the year and the seeds of the relationship between my new client and I are prospering, especially with my client’s gradual shifts from mindset bondage. By encouraging a comfortable and safe engagement between the two of us, the conversation flow is easier and I have used some resourceful methods to assist in participation enjoyment to aid my client’s development.
So convinced was my client that I was a perfect fit for his situation, that he made payment for the session within 12 hours of me having met his wife. That is commitment.
I like this former prison inmate. Although I only received an abridged version of why he ended up in jail, I found him charming and personable. A real gentleman. Old fashioned manners. He reminded me of my father in that respect.
With regard to his wife, my actual client, I understand her much better and therefore can make a few aspects of the coaching more bespoke and enjoyable for her. I can see progress in her development already, as can she.
When you are not born in to money and you suddenly have an abundance of it, it can be quite overwhelming. Powerful. It takes a while to get used to. To learn what money can do without ‘wasting’ it. To get your mind around how people respond to you because of money. To judge you if you are old money or new money. To deal with your ethnicity when you display vast sums of money. To handle the social opportunities where money opens doors for you.
To think that all of this started from a blogpost that I had written, to help someone going through life issues that are similar to yours!
This is why I do what I do. Why I share aspects and composites of UHNW & HNW Women experiences and stories online. Why I tell you that you have to be ready to do the small things.
If you want to become a client of mine and you need support in your life as an affluent woman right now, then drop me a line at RISE to Escape. You are just a click away from the change that you require.
Always seek the guidance that feels perfect for you and allow the energy of this connection to help your mojo momentum.
If you need support on your spiritual journey, I would recommend that you purchase the Ascension Group Diary first and foremost. You have your foundation guidance to hand as and when you need it. Morning, noon and night. Use the tools and resources contained within it to help you.
Next step. If you feel that you must have more help, enrol with me and enter my online workshops or purchase an Energy Symbol Layout. Use the Energy Symbol Layout when preparing candles, incense or incantations.
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Finally. If you feel as though the fairies at the bottom of your garden are more concerned with the enjoyment of a hookah than your needs, wants and desires AND the Leprechauns are in a constant state of delightful neglect of you as they sit there counting their gold at the rainbow’s end, then feel free to contact me at this link. RISE to Escape. Let’s talk.
So, you decide whether you want:
A. For yourself to keep plodding along with the same old, same old of eating prunes, asparagus and garlic to cleanse and take care of your physical well-being, in the hope that your spiritual entities will also get cleansed. (Be sure that you have enough gas masks for guests that come to dinner!)
or,
B. For yourself to be reformed & repackaged so that your heart of gold can shine through and show you the way through love of your true Self. Attracting like-minded people to join your professional and social teams. Igniting your path with disco lights as you dance along to the funky soundtracks of your life, with an added bonus (because everyone likes an added bonus) of James Brown throwing down some funk as you try out some cringe worthy funky moves in 70’s clobber. You do not give a shit what other people are thinking of you, as you feel great & you are flying high from the feeling of funk euphoria.
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